I am a 22 year old who feels sort of
like I'm ten. I love ghost stories, pretty
much any type of tea, british &
egyptian history, photography, wp,
and my favourite band is SoCo. I'm
also a bit of a Georgia Nicolson addict.
Ohmygiddygod. I hate it when..
1. People think that they need to “fix” something or someone, when really that person is only broken to THEM.
2. When people assume that the reasons behind the actions of others is always a result of them and/or something they did.
3. I also hate it when people compare REAL people to FICTIONAL characters in books, and then want them to be more like the characters that AREN’T REAL FOR A REASON! (Mainly because they’re psycho bloodsucking freaks, who to be honest have quite creepy tendencies.)
4. When people can’t read between the lines, the very large, in the open, might-as-well-be-printed-on-their-forehead lines.
(P.S. Trying so hard is NEVER attractive. I’m really good at this one, but seriously, I know my own faults, you should really get acquainted with yours.)
I’ve kept really quite verbally about all this mess, and about what’s going on in general in this certain situation with certain people, because I’ve learned putting it out there just pisses people off, but this is really ridiculous. You can’t want to be with a person, but then in turn, want to change everything about that person - what’s the point? AND also, you can’t say you want to show someone that not all women suck and aren’t cheaters when you just stated a few weeks ago that even if you were with someone else you would cheat on them with THAT person. Seriously now. Just cause it’s not cheating ON them doesn’t mean it’s not just as fucking bad. Cheating is cheating, no matter which way it goes.
Also, you shouldn’t talk bad about people you don’t know, or perceive that their actions are based on something when you really have no insight on them at all. Because believe it or not, I was invited here, I was wanted here, and not just solely by my best friend, who ALSO happens to live here. Hey didn’t consider that an option did ya smarty? One WAS my best friend, and one was the guy that you’re so convinced hates me and wants nothing to do with me, the other person was HIS best friend, although I will admit his excitement probably ranks at about 1/3 on a 1-10 scale Haha. You know, and I know the guy in question has issues sometimes telling the exact truth, but why the hell you think that I’m not wanted here is such a damn mystery to me, honestly. I don’t know about you (really, I don’t cause you’ve lived what? Three hours at the most away from him for HOW many years? - Yeah if I’m right, almost a decade. Why haven’t YOU offered to come see HIM if you’re so strived for his attention.) but I didn’t move up here, and WOULDN’T move up here, if he didn’t want me here, even mildly. I went through WEEKS of consideration over this fact, and with the help of my best friend - decided that if he for a second, even debated, on weather he wanted me here or not - I wouldn’t come. Guess what? My idea was NOT received badly or even looked upon badly, there is not one person that I know up here (from the three above) that would say me being here is a bad thing, or that me being here is something they would have not wanted. (Okay, maybe said guy’s BFFFL, but only because I have every intention of stealing his butt-buddy.) I even had a chair beaten up for me, how many people have beaten up chairs for YOU? Yeah, that’s what I thought. You might not think having a chair beaten up for you is really anything of importance, but I think it’s cute. So suck it.
I SO wish that I still had the conversation me and him had back in April, cause then you’d have a reason to dislike me. Lord, you’d have a whole shitload of them.
I hate ranting because I think it’s pointless, it doesn’t do anything except get things out in the open where they can be misunderstood and twisted around. The thing is, I’m tired of you. Really really tired of you, and I know, I do this to myself, because I go to your journal willingly, and I read it willingly, and I’ll admit it’s partially because I find you comically satisfying. Yup, you should go into comedy, and you’re act could just be called ‘Sad’ - and once everyone left, they would totally go ‘Ohh…’ and laugh, cause they’d get it. I don’t like being mean, unless it’s the sarcastic meanness that people actually love me for, but you just know how to push those buttons so well, and without even trying, and that’s impressive. Because I know people who KNOW me and don’t even know what buttons to push. I mean, and I get it, I really do, you don’t like me, and you really only don’t like me because 1. You know I like him and 2. You don’t know me. And this is going to sound cocky, but seriously, I’m fucking awesome, it’s HARD not to like me, unless you just generally don’t have the same type of biting sarcasm for a personality, which I totally understand. But why do I not like you? I could list reasons long enough to keep me up tonight. I don’t think you could get past 5 good solid reasons why you don’t like me (without taking into account what others might have said 4 years ago…), without entering Bullshit Territory.
But seriously, there is nothing broken that you need to fix. Stop trying. You’re the only one that’s seeing these missing pieces. And the person is question is much more amazing than any character you’ll ever find in any book, even your romances, so stop trying to change who he is. Am I sucking up? Quite possibly, but bigger then that, I am telling the truth. If there are things that in your head, you think need fixed, fine, but that doesn’t mean that there is actually anything wrong. If you want a perfect person, who is never going to mess up, who is never going to say the wrong thing, and never do the wrong thing, and never lie, then hunny you’re in the wrong species. There is a quote that goes something like ‘To love someone, is to accept their flaws and not think any different of them’ - I heard that in high school so it could be terribly distorted, but the meaning is the same. You can’t love (or even just like) someone for the good things, and expect to change the bad things, it doesn’t work like that.
PS. This shirt, makes me look hot, and like my boobs a lot. The End.
2. When people assume that the reasons behind the actions of others is always a result of them and/or something they did.
3. I also hate it when people compare REAL people to FICTIONAL characters in books, and then want them to be more like the characters that AREN’T REAL FOR A REASON! (Mainly because they’re psycho bloodsucking freaks, who to be honest have quite creepy tendencies.)
4. When people can’t read between the lines, the very large, in the open, might-as-well-be-printed-on-their-forehead lines.
(P.S. Trying so hard is NEVER attractive. I’m really good at this one, but seriously, I know my own faults, you should really get acquainted with yours.)
I’ve kept really quite verbally about all this mess, and about what’s going on in general in this certain situation with certain people, because I’ve learned putting it out there just pisses people off, but this is really ridiculous. You can’t want to be with a person, but then in turn, want to change everything about that person - what’s the point? AND also, you can’t say you want to show someone that not all women suck and aren’t cheaters when you just stated a few weeks ago that even if you were with someone else you would cheat on them with THAT person. Seriously now. Just cause it’s not cheating ON them doesn’t mean it’s not just as fucking bad. Cheating is cheating, no matter which way it goes.
Also, you shouldn’t talk bad about people you don’t know, or perceive that their actions are based on something when you really have no insight on them at all. Because believe it or not, I was invited here, I was wanted here, and not just solely by my best friend, who ALSO happens to live here. Hey didn’t consider that an option did ya smarty? One WAS my best friend, and one was the guy that you’re so convinced hates me and wants nothing to do with me, the other person was HIS best friend, although I will admit his excitement probably ranks at about 1/3 on a 1-10 scale Haha. You know, and I know the guy in question has issues sometimes telling the exact truth, but why the hell you think that I’m not wanted here is such a damn mystery to me, honestly. I don’t know about you (really, I don’t cause you’ve lived what? Three hours at the most away from him for HOW many years? - Yeah if I’m right, almost a decade. Why haven’t YOU offered to come see HIM if you’re so strived for his attention.) but I didn’t move up here, and WOULDN’T move up here, if he didn’t want me here, even mildly. I went through WEEKS of consideration over this fact, and with the help of my best friend - decided that if he for a second, even debated, on weather he wanted me here or not - I wouldn’t come. Guess what? My idea was NOT received badly or even looked upon badly, there is not one person that I know up here (from the three above) that would say me being here is a bad thing, or that me being here is something they would have not wanted. (Okay, maybe said guy’s BFFFL, but only because I have every intention of stealing his butt-buddy.) I even had a chair beaten up for me, how many people have beaten up chairs for YOU? Yeah, that’s what I thought. You might not think having a chair beaten up for you is really anything of importance, but I think it’s cute. So suck it.
I SO wish that I still had the conversation me and him had back in April, cause then you’d have a reason to dislike me. Lord, you’d have a whole shitload of them.
I hate ranting because I think it’s pointless, it doesn’t do anything except get things out in the open where they can be misunderstood and twisted around. The thing is, I’m tired of you. Really really tired of you, and I know, I do this to myself, because I go to your journal willingly, and I read it willingly, and I’ll admit it’s partially because I find you comically satisfying. Yup, you should go into comedy, and you’re act could just be called ‘Sad’ - and once everyone left, they would totally go ‘Ohh…’ and laugh, cause they’d get it. I don’t like being mean, unless it’s the sarcastic meanness that people actually love me for, but you just know how to push those buttons so well, and without even trying, and that’s impressive. Because I know people who KNOW me and don’t even know what buttons to push. I mean, and I get it, I really do, you don’t like me, and you really only don’t like me because 1. You know I like him and 2. You don’t know me. And this is going to sound cocky, but seriously, I’m fucking awesome, it’s HARD not to like me, unless you just generally don’t have the same type of biting sarcasm for a personality, which I totally understand. But why do I not like you? I could list reasons long enough to keep me up tonight. I don’t think you could get past 5 good solid reasons why you don’t like me (without taking into account what others might have said 4 years ago…), without entering Bullshit Territory.
But seriously, there is nothing broken that you need to fix. Stop trying. You’re the only one that’s seeing these missing pieces. And the person is question is much more amazing than any character you’ll ever find in any book, even your romances, so stop trying to change who he is. Am I sucking up? Quite possibly, but bigger then that, I am telling the truth. If there are things that in your head, you think need fixed, fine, but that doesn’t mean that there is actually anything wrong. If you want a perfect person, who is never going to mess up, who is never going to say the wrong thing, and never do the wrong thing, and never lie, then hunny you’re in the wrong species. There is a quote that goes something like ‘To love someone, is to accept their flaws and not think any different of them’ - I heard that in high school so it could be terribly distorted, but the meaning is the same. You can’t love (or even just like) someone for the good things, and expect to change the bad things, it doesn’t work like that.
PS. This shirt, makes me look hot, and like my boobs a lot. The End.
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